How To: Poop Your Pants Rod Squad 467 subscribers Subscribe 337 54K views 9 years ago Hope this tutorial helped! Then another time, I pooped massively in my pull up while walking to my class. It's VERY common at this age, and when this happens, they CAN'T control what comes out when. It made a big smell and people noticed, but probably thought it was a fart and didn't know who did it. Thank you for this blog and others who have commented. So now I'm lying there, freaking dead, just praying that he can't see me. then instead of witholding i would crouch down and slowly push all of the poo out until i was sure i was finished. At the time my 13-year-old brain though my explanation sounded good but when I think about it now it would have been completely implausible. Let Go Of The Problem Yes, the child going number 2 in his pants is a huge problem. And I never liked knowing i gotten away with it because when i pooed my pants i knew i had never got away with it and my accident would get discovered soon. Have something with you that can cover up the wet patch on your pants. anyway. I can offer two theories about why you may have deliberately soiled yourself when you were upset or embarrassed, although neither of them applied to me. The only time I changed was if a teacher or someone said something but that hardly ever happened. that was the type of thing which went through my head. I was almost 13 by the time I finally stopped pooping my pants. Like most habits they become very hard to break. My cheeks burned and I sweated with embarrassment, but I said no. I was twenty one years old. When it did I just made an excuse and went home before anyone noticed, that worked until I was at a friends birthday party. resolution soon. I couldnt explain how constipated I was so creating a story was the next best thing, so thats exactly what I did. I wonder if maybe she did it once as an accident then felt your reaction and continued to do it..is she testing and pushing limits in other ways??? It must have been a few days since I had used the my messy pants and pulling them back up again. We developed a sense of humor about our problem. Indeed, as I wrote in another post, just seeing a little girl in my nursery class being changed out of messy underwear made me feel better about myself for a short time.I'm intrigued to know what happened on this holiday you mention, especially as my final, and most embarrassing accident, happened on a holiday when I was 11. Instead I decided to push the extremely big hard logs into my underwear. However, it might have just come down to the simple fact that I had reached the front steps to my house before succumbing to this temptation, and had I lived a little further away, I would have done the shameful deed. I was already in a crouching position when I felt it, but this time I The large poop also stretches out the colon, weakening the muscles there and affecting the nerves that tell a child when it's time to go to the bathroom. soiled himself as having filled his pants. Very odd stuff to say the least. holiday from school and did not need my parents to spend large amounts of time LOL: POOPING AT SCHOOL. Like you James I soiled my pants regularly as a boy (at school and at home). Yesterday at 12:46 PM. They did typical annoying stuff trust me, but not the poop. They claimed they didn't force anyone, but I knew one guy who was really upset that he had to attend, because he swore he only had one accident and it would never happen again. In my case, I'm sure it wouldn't have been too long before someone was pulling back the waistband of my underwear! interservice rivalry japan hoi4. At 13 she stopped changing me, but had this embarrassing ritual whereby I had to wash my underpants in the bathroom sink whilst she watched. Many of the kids that have had Encopresis also have ADD or ADHD. The idea of peeing myself was the only bad decision I didnt make that day concerning my bodily functions. Another reason would have been that my birthday is in September, so I was 13 at the start of year 8 and this is when it concluded. She was also directing her suspicions at my friends younger family members. It seems like a strange decision but at the time it made me feel like I had control. In my case, I didn't get into the habit of deliberately soiling myself, but I did get into the habit of withholding my poo from the age of 3, which it took me years to get out of. of course she doesn't have an answer, and when you are a small small person being confronted by looming adults who are clearly 'extremely upset' because of your inability to control a bodily function, what are you supposed to do? Sometimes, kids soil their pants because they feel like it. Thats when bother begins brewing. I was always extremely constipated so going to the toilet and trying to do it seemed pointless. It completely changed my image of him. then i would take my hands out of pants (normally there would be some poo on my fingers so i would get a tissue and wipe it off. Quora User Author has 5.5K answers and 817.3K answer views 6 mo "Would you poop your pants on purpose?" Really? But many kids beyond the age of toilet teaching (generally older than 4 years) who soil their underwear have a condition known as encopresis (en-kah-PREE-sis). himself, but even she was shocked by how badly I stank. Hi Anonymous,There were quite a few times, but the worst was probably during an excursion in my second year of high school. At least brifs contain the feces almost like a diaper.sometimes I wore two pairs.I remember walking through the hallway in 7th grade and pooping a big log into my underwear as I walked. She seemed to know what I was going through and her admission she knew my person experience made me feel great. It wasnt until I became interested in girls that I got more determined. High school was a very different story. thought of using the toilet when I already had a pooey bottom, and of pulling down When You Poop Your Pants As An Adult. I was still doing it when I started high school so rather than try to stop, I made a very conscious decision to hide my problem. I am not sure whybut I can tell you that your assumption that because she is 'regular', she is not constipated is not correct. She made me come to the front of the class, pulled my trousers down and pulled the back of my waistband on my undies. Shrug and then say, "I think you should start helping wash the poopy clothes though - you are old enough to know better, and it's not fair that I have to wash your poopy pants when pooping in your pants is your choice.". I too could be happy playing alone with nothing. i love that . I'm also certain that no member of staff at my school would have changed me if I'd had an accident in Year 6 or, indeed, in any year later than Year 2.I never had to wash my own underwear, and the issue with boxer shorts never came up as I have never liked these garments and have carried on wearing briefs to this day.I hope you are able to help your nephew and can use your own story and mine to help. I knew the tour still had a while to go and I was familiar with what was going to happen if I didnt take the opportunity to do it. He refuses to play with his toys, or play games with my sister. Dixie*, 21. Cleaning me up that day was going to be no easy . toilet because shortly afterwards I felt that I had to go again. I dont know anymore but I find it odd that its been about 6 months since the last time this has been an issue then all of a sudden 2 days in a row. Other kids would notice and grass to the teacher when Id pooed my pants, but I dont remember being bullied for it. I worked different machines about half hour poop in my pants. Instead I decided to do it in my underwear until I got home and could get the medication I knew worked. The remainder of the walk was a slow, teary, squelchy one. However I poop my diaper quite often and this is always on purpose and I love doing it because it feels amazing. khairete which has since been converted. It's a bit like an older child sucking their thumb, but rather more extreme. I had an accessible toilet. Ketta 666. Test made by: natalia1998. We would usually tell each other if we needed to go but neither of us ever wanted to go home because that usually meant the end of exploring. Don't assume it's a control issue. Walk up to it and point the stain towards the air. She also told me it still happened to her from time to time and I discovered it wasnt just something she said to make me feel better. When I tried to go at home nothing happened, or it hurt too much, so I usually just ignored what my body was telling me. Prezi. It was during that walk home I made the very conscious decision to get good at keeping it secret. For several reasons, I don't think she would have considered leaving me in dirty pants for the rest of the day.As well as it being unhealthy and unsanitary to leave me messy, she would not have wanted me stinking up the house and sitting at the dinner table or on the sofa with dirty pants. Yes I poop my pants on purpose I love how it feels I know I'm grown up but still like to fill my pants I love the warm sensation of it it makes me happy to poop myself every night I love sleeping in my poopy pants I've been doing this since I was 15 on and off and now I'm 49 and love it so if you want to try it go ahead with it you might like it You can have constipation mixed with diarrhea (other conditions have this as well as some moms have mentioned) so I wouldn't rule out a medical cause - just because they go regularly doesn't mean there can't be compacted stool. I thought about telling the driver to stop but that was a terrifying. I think thats one of the reasons it became such an embedded habit and was so hard to break. I would assume that because I couldnt smell it, nobody else could. underwear he would sometimes just do the rest in his pants. All I had to do was go to the toilet yet my phobia had got so bad there was no way I could even though I knew it meant pooping in my underwear. After over 13 years in child care I can tell you that around this age kids poop and pee their pants for a while again. Nothing I had said to them seemed to change their minds, so I had stopped trying. When I reached my teens that happened a lot, especially on the weekends so I often spent quite a lot of the day wearing soiled underwear. When I had finished I resumed Hi jason. That was quite a while later and she questioned me why I hadnt bothers going to the toilet after and why it looked like I had done the entire load in my underwear. Of course, the whole world knows now! At the time I probably thought I was wasting my time and after all I somehow believed she had given me permission. would not now do so, as this would result in my accident being quickly like you i loved playing on my own and the majority of my time was spent in my room on my own playing with lego, pokeman cards, knex, or toy cars. Then it was a long drive home in my poop mobile sitting in the mess, mmm tasty! did not think for one second of using it. Kids go through all I got very good at keeping it secret and like you did it until my late teens. Cheers Bean. thing to do at the time. 9 year old son always withheld his poo at school said that if he came home in dirty How do you expect me to get these clean? As I was walking down the hall, I heard him say "phew! Since my pants were already a mess, I thought, why not just finish the job? I was also extremely shy so putting my hand up and asking to go to the toilet was far to embarrassing. I don't know what else to do. You need to let it go. July 20, 2016, 1:00pm. of myself. I was also convinced that I was the only kid my age who still pooed his pants. hi james the blog is soo useful! The longer the better! Show more Show more Master. I really think I'd have wanted a hole in the ground to open beneath me if a friend's mother had questioned me about why I had soiled myself and why I hadn't gone to the toilet. But, apart from the day recounted above, I wouldn't deliberately poo in my pants, to my younger self this would have been just too naughty and I hated the moment when I knew that I had pooed myself, I wouldn't make it happen on purpose. In the event youre not close to a toilet and need to go poop, you may attempt manipulating these muscle mass to carry it in till you may go:Clench your butt cheeks collectively. The issue is pervasive sufficient that in 2017, two bystanders on the New York Metropolis Marathon brandished handmade indicators. I almost died of embarrassment. Like you I also didnt mind wearing my dirty underwear until just before bedtime. I was 8 when this happened and it took place at the When she first asked me, I acted like I didnt know what she was talking about, but she then told me how she knew. Why would a 12 year old poop his pants on purpose? Peppa Pig Play-Doh Toilet Training Accident Pees Her Pants and Poops. Most of my first day of high school was spent with a load in my underwear, which was rather crushing at the time. I think she's kind of put off from it, doesn't think it's a big deal, and she doesn't do the laundry - so leaves it for mom to wash. been particularly apt on this day. A quick conversation at the door was good enough and meant I didnt have to waste time cleaning up. My logs were always big and very firm and without much odor, so I usually just kept wearing my underwear until I got home. did not think of the consequences of my actions. "in a loud voice. If you like the idea of blushing when others see what you've done, you don't have to cover it up. !" shouted her mom. I remember being so embarrassed that this happened in front of my mates that I cried at my desk. I too had hard poos in my undies, I was never bothered by it and would play for hours until I was detected. I remember one Christmas morning, I would've been 8 or 9, when I was told to use my diaper. During the holidays between primary and high school I had tried to stop but there was I was going home with soiled underwear. you are demanding adult logic and responses from very little girl. When it's backed up TOO much, the poop leaks out and it can be a messy incident. But I always managed to successfully hide them from being detected. I found the cleaning up process highly embarrassing when I finally had to pull my dirty pants down so I was quite happy it being put off till bedtime and being left to my own devices in the meantime. To which she had no answer and really didnt care what we were saying. My son went every day, like clockwork. Make quizzes, send them viral. I ignored it and pooping poop wetting diaper peeing diapers abdl tbdl pee diaperpunishment messing diapered nappies wet messy bedwetting diaperlover mess teenbaby dl. I imagine that was a difficult and embarrassing conversation. My teacher smelled it when he came in, and I rushed to the bathroom to clean myself. I realized there was no getting out of it and the other people had probably also seen. It "Julia, you pooped in your pants. First take her to the pediatrician & have Instead I pushed and, for the first time in my life, I pooed in my pants on purpose. On the way home back to the place we were staying my friends sister made comments about a strange smell in the car but no one else seemed to suspect anything. Once I finally mastered keeping my underwear clean, I began to feel very confident and was quite proud of myself. 1. That was great but I also later discovered I wasnt as good as I thought. Sort by: Hot. say that a baby has filled his nappy, some parents refer to a child who has "No one Poop" learn the opposite, held aloft by a toddler. when u pooed in the toilet would u tell your mum and would she have been very happy. 4. !!!!! Underwear which has been both pooped and peed in is particularly horrendous, and, of course, your pants (trousers to Brits like me) would have been wet as well. Shes older than I am and was unkind to me growing up because of this issue I was potty trained by 18 months, but in year 1 at primary I began to be embarrassed about the toilet and withhold until it was too late. carried on playing. She would often be understandably disgusted with me and tell me she could smell me and "knew what I'd done" etc, and threaten to put me back in nappies. I got quite good at keeping it secret and that became a challenge for me, rather than admitting there was a problem. They have a problem with their bowels that dulls the normal urge to go to the bathroom. I was in control of my own movements and self. Grrrrr! Obviously this wasnt the case. Good luck! That may end up in evacuation of bowel actions.. Like usual it was extremely firm but keeping it secret was going to be a challenge. Ruby Coles, who received an honors bachelor of social work, admitted she . I suspect that I wouldn't have deliberately wet myself if I had needed to pee that day, I would probably have gone to the toilet, then carried on playing in messy underwear afterwards. It may happen if, as a parent, you are not strict on the use of the potty. They have a problem with their bowels that dulls the normal urge to go to the bathroom. Some guys even admitted to occasionally wearing diapers and pull ups to control their soiling.it felt good to know I wasn't the only one with this problem. Can I ask what this teacher did who decided to make you her "challenge"? He does have some medical "stuff" that may have caused that issue to take a little longer to resolve than it did in some other kids, but at 4, it was about beating Dad at the potty power struggle at least 90% of the time. PEPPA PIG POO POOPS HER PANTS!!!! And my mother's rage would probably have been even worse than it was.I definitely think you made the right decision that day. And yes, he also had many instances of 'streaky underwear' but we didn't put that and the stomach ache together. When we got in the bus and I sat on my seat it was instantly clear how big the load was. Something must have happened around that time or maybe it was just that starting school that triggered it. she's barely 5, had a fairly common 'accident', and got grilled and shamed over it. There were times when people got suspicious that I had done something in my pants. CARL DE SOUZA/AFP through Getty Photographs. A common culprit for pooping in undies is constipation. This book talks about instead of it being a disorder it's a smart gene. When I soiled my pants at home, my Mum would change me straight after finding out that I'd had an accident, and as soon as possible if I did it while we were out. This happened to me. Simon the Almighty 13 years of life experience. The fairly small back garden had no grass, few flowers and mostly Step 2 - Get back-up clothes. That wasnt available at my school, so I became good at keeping it secret and my mother gave me medication that reduced the odor. 0:33. Maybe it was my interpretation at the time, but it seemed like out of sight out of mind was my mothers approach. She was used to discovering that her son had pooed I dont think the second theory fits, but oddly enough I did suck my thumb when I was asleep. I had a good imagination and dont ever when u were discovered after having an accident was there a sense of relief because you found it uncomfortable to be in pooey pants and being discovered would mean u were to be changed? The first place to turn to is your child's doctorshe can offer professional advice and rule out issues you may not see. As I said before, it sounds strange but keeping it secret made me feel in control and kind of proud of myself. Call the pediatrician and take care of this. If youve read my earlier post, you will know that in 2014 I decided to write a book for older children who soil, as the only books on the m As a boy, James Parkin often pooed himself until he was 11. The pediatrician helped get him all cleaned out and the pant soiling stopped. It gave me control over my situation and liked that sense of being in control of something. Common causes of constipation leading to encopresis include: fewer than one bowel movement every three days. But, yes, since I was about 14 I've been pooping myself on purpose when giving the opportunity. I pretended that I was clean, like any other kid my age, and ignored the fact that I was actually messy and smelly and needed changing.My parents also thought I was being lazy or pooing my pants on purpose and I frequently got scolded and yelled at when they found out that I'd soiled myself again. I was staying after school to work on something, and instead of going to the toilet, I just sat there holding it in, and pooped a full load right then and there in class. I told her if she runs out of underwear, I will buy plain ones like they have at school (the ones they give out after accidents- which is very undesirable to her) until I see no more "evidence". The loads in my underwear were always quite large and that was something I was quite conscious of. sometimes the bump was quite small meaning there wasnt much poo in my pants and sometimes it was very big meaning i had done lots of poo. Due to prolonged stomach aches his pedi did an X-ray - he was completely backed up. Talking about it with others must have relieved some of the stress and probably helped you to stop. She's doing it for control and attention. In fact, I hardly ever used the toilets at school, even to pee. Someone pooped (feces) their pants while in a dance-off! I must have been more imaginative then most because I could play alone for hours without getting board. My gym teacher found them and boy was he mad! She must have had an acute sense of smell because no one else seemed to agree. Russellingins11. her seen/tested. And now you're included in that list. Just wondering if your Mum took you from shop to shop in dirty pants. - i.e. In the beginning I think it was a way of relieving my anxiety but then became a routine. This comment has been removed by the author. Yes, this is sooooo normal. On impact, I instantly shit my pants. I also had an amazing imagination. Then again today, she had a small streaker (not from not wiping properly) and she admitted that she knew it was there, told us when she did it (hrs before hand) and didnt care. The other embarrassing thing for me was that I only wore briefs when everybody else at high school was in boxers. I know it's really hard to do that, but if you make a big deal about it you are giving her the negative attention she craves. My name is Erin, and I pooped my pants. I was still doing it when I moved out of home to share a house with some friends. Your honesty and candor, James, on such a painful memory is much appreciated. On the day at my grandmother's house I was already messy, so it was too late to avoid a scolding and an embarrassing clean-up.Like you, I also spent a lot of time playing on my own in my bedroom, and until my 8th birthday, had a lot of accidents at home as well as when out. I dont want to live on this earth anymore. were you changed in school? 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